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My Tween Daughter Stopped Eating Meat! Will She Phase Out Of Being A Vegetarian?

I’ve been quietly dealing with something for the last few weeks because honestly, I thought it was just a phase we would get through. My 11-year-old daughter announced that she wanted to become a vegetarian and that meat is officially off the menu. At first, I thought it was a joke. I even brought home KFC – something we NEVER EVER do – in an attempt to bribe her into eating some chicken. I mean… who doesn’t love fried chicken, right? She didn’t bat an eyelash.

In fact, Natalie has stood firm on her ground and has shunned eating “anything with a face” for nearly a month.  That’s where she draws a line. She’s always been a sensitive soul and if I’m being honest with you, she has a friend that’s been a vegetarian for at least 6 years. A best friend! Every time we spend the day with that family, Natalie comes home and starts questioning the food industry as a whole. This has been brewing. Looking back on it all, I can now see the signs on the walls.

I’m proud of her for being so plugged in – for seeing things most humans refuse to recognize. There is a horror to our reality that we refuse to acknowledge. The chicken is nicely packaged at the supermarket. We don’t try to think about how it got there. But she does. How very mature of her.

I support her. I truly do. It is very brave of her to do something different at such a young age. My husband on the other hand… well, that’s a different story. An entirely different post! We’ll skip that section of this tale for now. Right now, this post is geared towards anyone who is in my same boat. I want to hand you an oar and give you some ideas to help you get through this phase or this life change — whatever it turns out to be.

I’m prepping for the latter.

How did I come up with all of this information? I turned to my friends. I am so lucky to have a group of friends that either have children who are vegetarians or who are vegetarians themselves. They flooded me with a plethora of information when I put out my call to action. I LITERALLY sat down and took NOTES as the knowledge poured in. SO SO SO SO SO very thankful for my tribe.

Here are my top line favorites from our conversations. It’s a great kick-off point for you! If you don’t know where to start while compiling your first shopping list for your tween vegetarian, consider the following guidelines to get you started.

Tips On How To Feed Your Vegetarian Child:

Foods to Consider:

  • Tofu
  • Greek Yogurt
  • Grains

  • Coco Macro Greens – Super Food for Kids (you mix this in their yogurt or almond milk in the morning)
  • Peanut Butter and Jelly sandwiches
  • Grilled Cheese Sandwiches and Tomato Soup
  • Sweet Potato Tortilla Soup
  • Any kind of soups really
  • Falafel
  • Baked Sweet Potatoes with roasted chick peas
  • Protein Shakes
  • Chia seeds / hemp seeds – mix into smoothie for protein
  • Avocado a day
  • Almond Butter w sliced banana on toast
  • Pea Powder Protein Shake
  • Ensure for vitamins
  • Avocado toast
  • Veggie tots from Green Giant
  • Nuts, Nut butters
  • Beans
  • Thai / Indian
  • Eggplant dishes
  • Tacos w black beans
  • Pasta with veggies
  • Bean burritos
  • Egg dishes
  • Hummus and chips
  • Iron supplement
  • Veggie chili
  • Farro
  • Coconut Milk / Almond Milk / Cashew Milk or Yogurt
  • Lentils
  • Lentil wraps
  • Vegetable wraps

Vegetarian Cookbooks to Consider (recommended by personal friends):

Store Bought Vegetarian Brand Items (all highly recommended by friends):

This is just a start. I am on this vegetarian journey with you! I needed to jot this all down in one place for ME as well because as a parent of someone who wants to be a vegetarian… this is a TEST. I do not eat this way. I love meat. Three times a day if I can have it! Ok, I’m exaggerating. But you catch my drift. This is a new world and I’m scared. I’m so worried about protein and iron and whether or not I am meeting her needs now that she wants to omit meat. But so many of my vegetarian friends confirmed that all of these nutrients can be found in rich leafy greens and beans. She will be just fine!

So, the more I learn… the more I will post. Taking this journey together.

What tips have you learned while researching how to feed your vegetarian tween or teen? Would love to hear!! I’m at the beginning of the board as well.

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Vera
Vera Sweeney, mom, blogger, social media influencer and New York resident, is the founder of LadyAndTheBlog.com. She is considered one of the top female digital influencers in today’s social media space. Her lifestyle and parenting brand helps busy women stay on top of the latest trends in fashion, food, family and travel.

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  1. Vera, this is my first visit to your blog and this post immediately caught my eye. I am so glad that you are supporting your daughter like this. I became a vegetarian at at the age of 15 but it would have been sooner if my mother was as supportive as you. (Or informed for that matter) I don’t have children so I cannot offer any parenting advice, but I can say that from what I read, that you are doing a great job! The most important thing you can do for something making this transition is to support their decision. I am the lone vegetarian in a fairly large family and was never supported for my choice. (actually it was the opposite) I don’t preach or call out anyone for eating meat as I feel it is a personal choice, but am happy to discuss if asked. So hang in there and kudos to you!!

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